Showing posts with label feeling good. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feeling good. Show all posts

Monday, May 23, 2011

Smile

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Waking up in the morning can be unpleasant in the Winter.  The weather and gloom are strong incentives to pulling up the covers and going back to sleep. 

Spring makes it a little easier.  The sun peeks around the curtains and birds sing.  If you have a thoughtful partner like I do, coffee will be brewing in the kitchen and soon the paper will arrive without my having to move a muscle.  It makes me smile.

On those Winter mornings, or when life is not going my way, my smile has to take the place of the sun and the birds singing.  I grin and bear it, and as I fake it I start to make it.  My grin starts to generate feelings in my body that seem like genuine happiness.  More smiling makes me feel more genuinely happy.  Smiling is so powerful.  It can actually change your mood. 

My son visited Oregon State, and was amazed how friendly the people were. "They actually Smile at you when you see them on the street", He marveled. "It's so different from the curt nods they give you in California. And this is supposed to be the Sunshine State!"

You may only have your smile to share with others, but it's a rich gift!  
A friend sent me a TED talk all about smiling.  Check it out.  You'll discover that your smile is your everyday beauty.  Don't be afraid to share it.  Smile. Right now.  You'll feel better.  You'll feel beautiful, and those around you will benifit too.  Every day.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

How do you feel?


Not are you sick or are you well. A more interesting question is:

"What's your base line emotion?" 

Speaking textually, what's your natural emoticon? :>) or :>( ? 

When nothing good or bad is happening, when life is in neutral, or when you're settling down to sleep or waking up in the morning, what are you feeling?  What is the subtle emotion that makes itself felt in the wee hours? Are you content, happy, pleased with life in general, or are you tense, annoyed, or angry without knowing why? 

Do you even know how you feel in general? Have you ever asked yourself this question? Is your life based on externals? Do you need an event or experience or person to point to that generates an emotion (You won a million dollars so you're feeling happy, or your dog died so you're feeling sad?) to know how you feel? 

Try an experiment.  Right now, how do you feel? However you feel, can you change the feeling just by wanting to?  Can you move into joy without having to have something to feel joyful about? Can you feel good with no good reason?

How do you feel?

Take a page from Nina Simone

 Feel good.